Tests
The tests
Three questionnaires to say, beforehand, what you want, what you refuse and what state you are arriving in.
You fill them in on your own, at your own pace, then send your answers to the other person. None of them gives a score or a profile: they prepare a conversation, they do not replace it. You do not need to practise BDSM to use them: saying what you like, what you do not like and what you would like to try is worthwhile in any relationship.
The big questionnaire of desires, curiosities and limits, in eleven areas: from kissing and cuddles to the most intense practices. It draws your portrait as a radar chart.
Today’s state: energy, mood, body, three wishes in order, what is not for tonight, signals and what comes after.
How sending works
At the end, there are two ways to send. The link opens a reading page with your summary for the other person, in their own language; the PDF is made on your device and is sent as an attachment.
Either way, nothing goes through a server. Your answers are stored in the link itself, after the # sign, the part a browser never sends to the site. The messaging app you paste the link into, however, does see it: choose a private conversation.
To take a break, copy your resume link from the questionnaire’s contents menu. It reopens your answers, here or on another device. Keep it to yourself.